Dating someone who has similar taste like you is a wonder, then how about dating someone who knows you best, like your best friend?
In any kind of relationship, there will always be an effort between both parties that includes compassion, trust, and definitely love, whether it’s friendship or a mere companionship. As love platforms varieties of emotions in someone’s heart, sometimes it can make the lines got blurry and even shifts the platonic love into a romantic one. Hence, before you fall way too deep to your closest one, you better know what the consequences are:
The best or the worst
Dating a best friend might reveals the sides that you haven’t seen before and it might or might not go well with your taste. Awkward at the first stages? Definitely, but is it going to be the worst one? You’ll never know about it, so it’s either you’re going to have the best relationship of all time or not at all.
Complicated? Yes maybe
As you used to be a pair of good friends, things will obviously get more emotionally complex than your friendship ever was. You’ll get to learn how to deal with things that need to be discussed together and put more efforts to work on the relationship together.
The family already loves you
A good thing for dating your best friend would be this one–you won’t need another formal introduction or making another first impression because they know who you are and might have been seeing you as a part of the family already.
You can totally be yourself
Your best friend have known you for the things that you may not even know about yourself, hence you won’t need another process to be accepted because they already do–since day one.
Source: Refinery29, Bustle, Huffington Post
Writer: Windyannisa Cindrati
Editor: Olivia Elena Hakim
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