Depression can manifest in various ways as it kills people from inside, according to Psychiatry one in six people experience depression at some time in their life, meaning that you or someone close to you is likely have also affected by depression.
If you know someone with depression, here are some ways to reach out to them.
Be their ears without intervening Start with presenting yourself for them, people with depression often feel like they’re in a deep hallow that no one can get them out, and the only thing that can help is by making them believe that they’re not alone. Avoid offering solutions to them because it will make them more like a failure and get even more depressed.
Stop asking them why they are depressed. Some questions like, ‘why do you want to die?’, ‘what’s wrong with you?’ or even ‘is there anything I can help?’ are putting them in a corner with the answer ‘yes, I’m fine’ while actually they’re not. Instead, change your questions to some encouraging statements, tell them how much they meant for you and make them know that they’re not alone.
It’s easy to get frustrated over their mood swings or their self-hatred, but you need to be extra patient for them. People with depression needs extra time to recharge their confidence and got their moods shifted so often, but you need to believe that it takes time to heal and what you need to do is reassurance them that you are there on every step of the way.
Let your body language talks Sometimes, words can caught up on your throat that making you running out of things to say, and when this happens let your body language to take over. Hold their hands when they talk or hug them when even they can’t let out their words. It’s a little thing that speaks louder than words.
Depression is a serious medical illness that affects how you feel, the way you think and act. But it’s treatable. Don’t let it gets into you or your loved ones, hence try to recognize the symptoms and reach your hands for them.
Editor: Olivia Elena Hakim Writer: Windyannisa Cindrati Source: healthline
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